Frank Georgalis – Writer

America—Guys and Dolls: What’s a Woman to Do?

According to the Holy Bible, God, having finished the assembling of the universe, created Adam with the purpose to care for what God had created.

God, monitoring Adam, was puzzled and surprise to see that Adam roamed around the Garden of Eden in a very naïve and goofy way.

Adam and Eve roamed in the garden of Eden aimlessly God, who according to him he created everything on trial and error basis, he proceeded to correct the condition with Adam. That was birth of Evolution. We must understand that function of evolution is to correct God’s errors and omissions. He thought that Adam needed a companion, adviser, and care taker. God thought that person should be in the image of Adam so he took a rib from Adam side, according to the bible, and made a woman called Eve. Why did God take a rib from Adam to make Eve?  We all can understand that God had plenty of mud around him, but he wanted Eve to be a part of Adam which at this point we can say that the woman is a part of the man. Once Eve came to life, God instructed her to care and advice Adam because Adam was not fully awake. God, in the making of Eve, did not increase the brain in the woman’s head; he only made her a little more awaken than Adam. Eventually, according to the Holy Bible, Adam and Eve became very bored. Why did they become bored? Because there was one very important thing missing, it was the act of sex. God realized, even though the couple was programmed and equipped with all the proper tools to have sex for multiplication of the human world, but the act of sex was not going take place unless he inserts some thrill in the act itself. Eve, being more awaken than Adam search to find something to break the boredom. Looking for direction out of boredom she was confronted with the serpent. The serpent, according to some religious scholars was the Satan who, according to some other scholars, is sitting on the left hand of God and is ordered by god many times to perform some of God’s dirty work. I, whether I believe those scholars or not, tend to believe that the serpent was send down by God to enlighten Eve, of the other side of the good. Please, take notice that I stated The Other Side of Good. I believe in my dictionary there is no word Bad to define because bad comes from the exaggeration of the good, I believe everything starts out as Good. I have also stated and I believe that God has created the universe on a trial and error bases, I believe, according to ancient Greek religion the serpent is the first school master of the world. From the time the serpent convinced Eve and then Adam to eat the forbidden fruit, civilization began. Things change, not immediately but gradually which we can call this the beginning of evolution. The fruit did not only contain information of life of the other side of the good it also contain the thrill of sex. It is a common knowledge or common opinion that Adam and Eve covered their privates. That did not happen immediately but it took time.

Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, embraced by the serpent It is the belief of the ancient Greeks that the serpent is the school master of the world, thousands of ancient vases paintings give us simple messages about Greek history and religion which we erroneously categorized as mythology. Goddess Athena is always depicted of carrying a spear. On one vase, she holds what appears to be her spear but what would normally be her spear is her hand which is actually a branch of the serpent’s tree Athena’s weapon is a symbol of her strength which originates directly from the serpents tree. Why strength from the serpent? Because knowledge is strength and the Satan’s tree was the tree of knowledge. Please understand ancient Greek religion, what we call erroneously mythology tells the same story as the Book of Genesis. There is one difference here, the serpent is the enlightener of mankind rather than the deceiver. On the vase paintings Zeus and Hera, a husband and wife or the king and queen of the gods are the match for the Adam and Eve of Book of Genesis. According to Hans Whalebone the couple is the beginning of the family institution, husband, wife and children and the origin of the family of the Greek gods. To some of my reader that may sound trivial. Think how many ways the society could have grown. I could very well have grown in a  completely in different from the family structure as we know it today. The family is probably one and the best institute of our society: there you find a man a woman and children living together under one roof and it started with Zeus and Hera the king and queen of the Greek Ancient gods. The family has carried many tradition rules and regulations to live by,  man, wife, and children. played a very important role in the life of the family. Traditionally speaking the man was the provider of all the necessities such as food and shelter, and the woman was the manager of them all and she kept the order of the house. I personally refer to the wife as the heart of the family, that may make me politically incorrect but I’m not a politician looking for votes and I don’t take sides. In the infancy of our society besides a man bringing the provisions and supplies and the other necessities, he was also the protector of the family’s welfare and safety. A peculiar thing is here that all the hunting was done by men. All the wars were fought by men and even the man in his infancy of his wisdom kept the women out of harms way.

Only man fought wars, women stayed home He and his neighbor, who fought against different tribes and different people from different caves and surfs kept women out of harms way. Our natural instinct in this world is to survive and aid of family do the same, not only survive but the family to go on and the tribe to survive. So men knew that having a cave full of men and one woman the tribe would eventually vanish, but having a cave full of women and only one man the tribe would continue to go on and multiply therefore women were considered the producers of our society. The woman is the queen of the bee hive and those ancient people refuse to endanger the life of the women so the family can go on and multiply. One very interesting point I would like to bring up. The Bee queen is the only member of the be hive who lays eggs, but if the queen dies the rest of the bees follow the rule of Parthenogenesis which means that they lay eggs without the interference of any male bee, but all the eggs hatch but the baby bees are all male so the bee hive vanishes.. Women today  allowed by politically correct politicians to join the arm forces have the same responsibilities and duty as man, and also allowed to leave children back home unsupervised so they are seize to be mother. Being politically correct, we are being incorrect to the children which are the future of our world.  By allowing women to join the army we are contributing in creating a family without a manager. A man on the other hand is taking the responsibility of the mother and the wife’s duties. Many women, is known around the town, are taking advantage of them. This is another instance where men being liberal and trying to be politically correct are attempting to take the duties and the responsibilities of a wife. I had a friend who is married and has a child living with his wife and he claims that he is liberal and he does woman’s house work. Visiting the family I noticed that one year old infant was crawling on the floor, with loaded diapers.   I indicated to his mother that the baby needed to be change.  She stoop looked at the baby and yelled loudly for her husband to hear who was in the other room. “Lord, my lord, the baby has a present for daddy.” “A present for Daddy?” responded  Daddy, who was in the other room. Without any further ceremony, Daddy rushed out of the room triumphantly, picked up the baby and sped into another room and changes his diapers. Then I realized that it’s not hard to find a present Daddy on Father’s day. I told this story to one of the women I know and I was being critical with the mother and the Daddy.  She obnoxiously defended the act and criticized me for being so critical with the mother and the father. She went on to ask if I would do the same thing, changed the diaper of the baby. “Yes I would do,” I said . “If the mother was very sick and couldn’t move a hand or a foot. You see, my dear lady, a woman is born with a beautiful, long and slim fingers,” I continued. “Her fingers, being so slim  are easy to clean the baby’s butt: a man is born with thick fingers, and there is no way he can do it. I don’t know whether it’s God’s will but this is how it is. You can’t fight mother nature.” “Are you telling me that it is proper and natural for a woman to be a maid to man, but not the man to the woman’s maid?” she asked. “I shall not answer this question but I would tell a short story” I said, and I proceeded with my story. “I was riding the bus one time. The bus was virtually empty with the exception of three young women and me sitting close enough to them to hear their conversation. Listening to their conversation I founded it so trivial, did not hold my attention except when I heard one of the ladies saying ‘I love my Gerry. I love my Gerry, I’d do anything for my Gerry. I trim his toe nails, I cut his hair, I bathe him, I shampoo him, I dry him, I kissed him, thinking his clean, I feed whatever he wishes to eat,, I love to do  all these things for my Gerry.’ ‘You mean to tell me you are his maid?’. The other asked with some indignantly. ‘How can you sit here, and telling that you perform the duties of a maid, to a man, without the slightest trace of shame? “Oh, no! Gerry is not my husband, Gerry is my dog.’. The lady I was talking to turned and looked at me with a forced smile on her face, but said nothing. “Is this the society you want to live in? you would rather be a maid to a dog than to a husband.” I asked  sarcastically. There was no answer to that and she walked away in silence and in some thought I hope mixed with shame,. The topic of my article is not to show guys and dolls how to behave towards each other. The topic will continue later on. I shall let guys and dolls make up their own mind which is the best way to go.